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Originally Posted by Blueberrybook
I am so mad at my mom  Today is my 15th anniversary. She called this morning early to wish me happy anniversary, but it was just before a romantic moment with H, kept calling persistently, home phone, cell phone, left message on our super loud answering machine. It woke my daughter and just ruined things. I know she meant well but who calls a person on the morning of their wedding anniversary, a bigger year even like 15, especially when it falls on the weekend?!
Does she even think about these things? It seemed like a checklist item. "Call daughter to wish happy anniversary. Do it first thing because I have church stuff most of the day."
I am so, so, so ANGRY at her! |
Mothers have a way...
Maybe you can remedy this by planning some time with your husband, just the two of you? Maybe a friend or your sister might take your daughter for a few hours, a day, or an overnight?
I have found it often pays off to be proactive. By this, I mean thinking ahead, making any arrangements necessary, and maximizing the chances of spending time together without interference. I have found this is much more rewarding than just leaving something this important (as this is for you) to chance.
I think you can find a remedy. You are two very intelligent adults.
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!!!
Party On!
