Hello progressnotperfectn: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC. I see this is your first post. So... welcome to Psych Central. One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest would be the anxiety forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/anxie...c-and-phobias/

I cannot be of any help myself with regard to your situation. Hopefully there may be other PC members who will have suggestions they can offer. In the meantime, here are links to 2 articles, from Psych Central's archives, on the subject of eating disorders. The first article, by our host Dr. John Grohol, Psy.D., provides links to a number of additional articles on the subject. And the second article lists a variety eating-disorders-related resources:

Eating Disorders: Symptoms, Types & Treatments | Psych Central

Eating Disorders Resources

| Psych Central

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.