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Originally Posted by seesaw
Even though the things you mentioned don't actually bother me (I sort of feel like IRL we'd be friends) it sounds like the way you interact with people needs to change. It does sound like people are maybe alienated by whatever you're putting off.
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I am not 100% sure I want to change it. But perhaps I will have to if my goal is to make friends. But then I think, do I want to make friends with people that need to be coddled this way? I suppose I am just disappointed that doing a good job and working hard offends so many seemingly normal people. The irony is that I hold back my sincere wish to lecture them on their many failings to keep the peace so I wonder sometimes if I should just let it all out.
I have the problem at work as well. But not as bad. But I still don't understand why at work I am always the "oh if she is around" but never top dog.