Ne1man,

I am right there with you. My wife told me about 3 weeks ago that she wanted a divorce. I totally understand your feelings of isolation and loneliness. Frankly, I am not sure how I have made it so far. My sister gave me a good motto to live by, hour by hour. What that means is that your emotions will change hour by hour. I was hit with a devastating depression that crippled me, even with antidepressants. Now, what I am trying to do is picture my life outside of my marriage. There was a single you before marriage, you must return to that single person status. But, I don't want to paint a rosy picture, because I still suffer tremendously.

Hang in there and know that you are not alone..

--sarc