I do think sometimes conversations are going too fast and i don't understand everything that is being said. Recently I have told my girlfriend that when we are having problems and arguing that i don't understand everything and i have to have her explain things again or more in depth because i can't follow. Also i've had to tell her that usually half-way through our argument i just can't handle it anymore and i get real nervous and can't follow and i get confused easily.

I guess that this would be why my brain will go off and try and separate because i'm getting confused so it goes back to something that i know won't confuse me? Does that make sense to anybody?