Ask him. I've felt like you. Discussed it with T and it was like she was just waiting for me to ask.

They won't impinge on us. It needs to come from us.
Once I told T after cutting back to one a week that I had hoped/wished somehow an email would materlise on the day off the missed session. She asked if it would help to get one?

I realised my desire for one is in me. Unless I show her, she can't be sure it's there.
Now every Monday I get a quick email from her.