Welcome, @Devomer! I agree with the other wise, wonderful posters. It is a tough situation to be in and I'm so very sorry that you have to deal with it! If it's possible, definitely try to move to another house alone with your Wife. If that's not an option, perhaps family therapy is another thing that may be worth considering. At the very least, though, perhaps you can ask them to at least try to avoid unnecessary conflict when possible. I know it's not easy since they live under the same roof. But if that's how the situation is going to stay, hopefully not for long, then I feel like they should at least try to tolerate each other's presence without arguing all the time. I also don't think it's fair of them to ALWAYS complain about each other to you. It's clearly stressing you out. I'd say speak to them, make them understand that something needs to be done and that you're trying your best to make everyone live peacefully but that it's up to THEM as well. Hopefully they'll understand! I am so sorry, it sucks when something like this happens. Just try to hang on a little bit longer, at least until you're able to move somewhere else with your Wife. i apologize if all of this isn't really helpful! Hopefully you'll have some peace! Wishing you the best of luck! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @devome, your Family, your Friends and ALL of your Awesome Dear Kind Sweet Wonderful Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN LIKE YOU'RE ALREADY WONDERFULLY DOING! PLEASE NEVER GIVE UP HOPE! YOU'RE AWESOME, YOU'RE IMPORTANT, YOU MATTER AND YOU'RE WORTH IT! THAT'S A PROMISE! PLEASE REMEMBER THAT AS MUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN BECAUSE IT IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE! I hope you'll LOVE this WONDERFUL Forum! Make yourself at Home and feel free to PM me ANYTIME when you're in need of Advice and Support! You're worth it! ALWAYS tell yourself thast because it is ABSOLUTELY TRUE!