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Old Aug 05, 2019, 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted by PurpleMirrors3 View Post
Drained, drugged and in a haze.

Feeling abandoned.

Feeling unimportant.

Crying in my car on the drive home.

Inability to focus or have normal conversations.

Night panic and night sweats.

Withdrawal from others.

Painful rumination of therapy topics.

Obsessing over the session.

Frequent need to take time off from my job.
Painful ruminations of therapy topics....yeah that.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.