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...what do they mean unstable? .

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By the sound of what you both are enduring,,,you have a pretty good understanding of unstable.

I'm sorry invisible but it would be unfair to state that she is being unfathful...we don't know her. But her disorder can lead to unfaithful behavior and that is something the two of you must come to terms with.

In many relationships when one member suffers from BPD a boundary that gets established is one of faithfulness. Boundaries are important in building a plan for recovery as long as they are reasonable, loving and include consequences...

Lenny