[Thank you for replying. Congratulations on your recovery. I can't imagine how hard that is.
I am planning to try Al Anon. I found one at lunch time near my work so I will give it a chance. I am not sure if it will work for me because I don't know how motivated I am. I am really angry ( I guess I mentioned that) and I really just want him to grow up and take care of himself and leave me alone. I don't want anything else from him. Well except I want him to stop doing things that are killing my parents.
Yep. That's it, don't kill my parents and leave me alone. It doesn't seem like too much to ask.