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Originally Posted by Omers
My T has said that what ever feeling I have towards him no matter how big or strong are OK there are limits on expressing the emotions. He has said he loves me and I have said that I love him. All of this is very consistent with who he is and his values both personally and professionally so I am not worried about it. So, what concerns me is that your T has changed their views/values more than their use of the word love.
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Yes, that concerns me too, but I suppose that people do change. If her self-exploration work has led to a shift for her, it makes sense that she has shared this with me (given her therapeutic approach). I don't disagree with you though, my instinct is to be concerned.