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Aug 07, 2019, 02:57 AM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Originally Posted by shakespeare47
I've given up trying to talk to my wife about it. She either gets defensive, or just ignores what I say and then just keeps trying to get me to spend time with her family. It's gotten to be so bad, I usually drive separately- and then leave as early as I can get away. I think this Friday I'll just have to give her some excuse about why I can't go.
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To me, this raises serious questions. Your wife should not ignore your feelings. Is that ok with you? do you want it to be different?
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I think on some level she is starting to see the things they say and do to me, but apparently, their behavior is acceptable, as far as she is concerned.
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This is something that will not go away. Family resentments are toxic and can ruin a marriage. Have you considered couples counseling?
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