I am so sorry they're treating you SO badly, @shakespeare47! You do not deserve this treatmen. I agree with you that perhaps it's better to spend as little time with them as possible. At the same time, though, I also agree with sarahsweets: it's not fair of your Wife to just ignore your feelings like that. It does needd to be discussed in my opinion. Perhaps Couple Counselling may be an option like she said. Give it a thought although I understand it may be difficult to convince your Wife. I wish you the best of luck this Friday and with whathever you decide to do! Keep us updated! I'll be thinking of you. Feel free to PM me anytime as well when you need to vent as my Inbox is always open for EVERYONE! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your Wife, @shakespeare47! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!