I'm so sorry you've had to deal with those kinds of people, @StreetcarBlanche! I COMPLETELY agree with you, and with sarahsweets and rechu as well. You do deserve better. I understand why you find dating frustrating. It IS frustrating most of the times. I hope you'll still keep looking for the right Man for you though! It doesn't have to be Online Dating if you don't like it either. Either way, whathever you decide, we'll be here to support you and validate your feelings. You DO deserve a good relationship so please NEVER settle for anything LESS! Keep venting here if it helps. Feel free to PM me ANYTIME as well. I'll listen to what you have without judging and try to offer some Advice when I can. I'm sure plenty will gladly help you as well! Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, @StreetcarBlanche, and ALL of your Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING!