You can't TRULY "fix" him ENTIRELY by yourself, @Ravenhairedwolf! I'm so sorry things are being SO HARD for BOTH OF YOU!!!!! Unfortunately Depression can change our own personalities and we can appear different to other people, even the ones who are the closest to us! I wonder if perhaps Couple Counselling could be an option for BOTH of you? Perhaps give it a thought! Either way, it is important for you to work on yourself and I'm REALLY HAPPY that you're doing it! As for your relationship, try to have a serious talk with him and decide TOGETHER where do you want to go from there! I feel like that's REALLY important. Communication is FUNDAMENTAL in EVERY relationship! It my even be that perhaps he just isn't in the right mindset for a relationship right now! I know it's hard to accept but sometimes that can happen! Please definitely talk to him and see if there are ANY solutions. Of course he has to do his part as well. It can't be all on you! If he refuses to get help or to talk things through, then I'm sorry to say this but you may want to SERIOUSLY reconsider your Relationship with Him! A relationship is made of MUTUAL respect after all, and also of collaboration between two people! He HAS to work on it with YOU if he TRULY wants to improve things in your Relationship and to Live an Happy Life together with you after all! Definitely discuss it together! Wishing you the best of luck to BOTH of you! I hope you'll be able to talk things through, work on your relationship and perhaps work on yourself individually as well! Please NEVER give up Hope! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH of you, @Ravenhairedwolf! PLEASE DO KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING!!!!!