You mentioned that T had missed his cue a few times for things that he should have explored further. I have a bad habit of doing that with my T as well and it is sooooo frustrating. Would it be possible to hit the pause button when you are in that moment and just tell him that it maybe isn't about the standing or the words he uses or whatever, that its about something else and you want his help exploring where that feeling is coming from? T's aren't mind readers and I have found that expecting them to read between the lines 100% of the time mean that there are bound to be misunderstandings.... Good luck at your appointment today. I hope it goes well!