I saw him today and told him I didn’t actually want to know where he was going, but was wondering if he’d tell me if I asked. He said, yes, he’d tell me if I wanted to know, but didn’t want to bring it up on his own because he didn’t want me to have to manage information about him. I said his response helped me feel like he was less controlling. I don’t really have any need/desire to know where he’s actually going, so didn’t ask.