I am in a relationship with him since 7 years. He is nice supported man, and want to marry but there are some issues from which I am feeling so confused to marry him because I am totally in live with him and want the relationship to be happy for life long for both of us and I am so possessive+open minded person. Could he be changed or I should more develop my standards. Below are the point from which I get so much disturb and depressed from a long time.

1.He use to check out other females. Love to check out without hesitation in front of me. when I says that it feels so heartbroken for me he say he is only checking her dress. As same time in pool when we both in swimming pool he check out other girl boobs and says to me lets go there(near her so he could take a nice look of her boobs even she has lesser size than mine) I stopped him he asked me why. This type of cheap behaviour make me so down and confused . He always appreciate me but on this I lost the self esteem.

2.He wants to talk to other females just as friends but not with my female friends, he thinks its need to talk with opposite sex and have contacts so that they can .

3.He told me that he use to have dreams that "he had sex with other beautiful and blond girls but unfortunately caught by me and than he feels guilty".

4.We are in a long term relationship so last night He told me that he with his business partners and friends last night he even don't want to sit with them but his one of friend force him to sit with their company, his friends have the sex with other room with a beautiful prostitute and forced him to do as well as for free, he goes to the prostitute room, and just talked to her when I said why, he said because talking is not bad,abd he is curious to know about her life he and how she use to get in this field. When the prostitute denied to talk to him and only do sex he said he have a lover......so is this true that boys are curious to have talk even when they have beautiful prostitute and provoking for sex..