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I thought all the parts work we have done in different fashion like IFS, and ego state was helping but what was actually helping was the attachment to my T and my subconscious feeling like I had a real caring attuned parent.
Now that my T has switched gears and done a 360 and no longer pays the attention he used to do all the issues I went to go see him for are flooding right back.
Children that are abused or neglected preverbal and and through out are permanently broken.
All therapy can do his help calm down the symptoms but I still feel internal anguish daily.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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