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I think I get what you are saying and I find it a very refreshing point of view. You make some very valid points about not accepting things because "that's life"
I think it's important to look at bad things in life and find out what can be done to change them. Maybe it's not changable Then you have to accept that it cannot be changed but even them you hold the power because you chose how you react. But maybe there is something we can do. Maybe it's a simple little thing or maybe it's life altering but in the end the payoff is the same. The point is we must do something.
"It is the very act of healing ourselves that reinforces the idea that we are ill." When you first began sharing this theory with us I was struck. It does make sense to me. A child without one parent or with a physical handicap never knows there is something "wrong" until they are told or see others and realize they are different. At that point they need reassurance that indeed, they are different but not bad, less, ill, etc. It's ok to be different.
I hope I am understanding what you are saying but at the same time know that if not, I am definately getting something from it.
Thanks for sharing,
Heidu



Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.
~ Carl Bard ~