Even if she was traumatized and even misses them, what’s the point of constantly talking about it. Unless maybe you are a therapist and are paid to listen to it.

Some people unfortunately create a victim identity for themselves and their entire existence is wrapped up in how people did them wrong. If you take that away from them, they feel lost and don’t know what else to focus on. Does she have anything in her life to talk about?

I personally avoid people like that. I’d recommend therapy for her.