I've told my T that I love her, a few times. She never answered, but did keep looking at me. Once I was telling her about how I wanted to hear her say it, and she wouldn't, but she did say, "Don't you know?" At that time, it wasn't enough. Lately, though, I am pretty sure that she does, because of various things she has said or done to and for me. But she still hasn't actually said it.