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Originally Posted by divine1966
Even if she was traumatized and even misses them, what’s the point of constantly talking about it. Unless maybe you are a therapist and are paid to listen to it.
Some people unfortunately create a victim identity for themselves and their entire existence is wrapped up in how people did them wrong. If you take that away from them, they feel lost and don’t know what else to focus on. Does she have anything in her life to talk about?
I personally avoid people like that. I’d recommend therapy for her.
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Yeah I agree. Everyone talks about some people who may have hurt them in the past from time to time. I will admit I do too at times, usually to give an example or a lesson. But I don’t act like asomeone who hurt me years ago had just done me wrong yesterday. That’s a bit much. She does have other things to talk about but yeah she kind of does seem to have a victim mentality. She probably needs therapy or at least someone better to sort out her feelings.