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Old Aug 09, 2019, 12:52 PM
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Originally Posted by comrademoomoo View Post
I suppose I am trying to move beyond my infant responses of slapping and throwing, although they are still strong instincts. For me, having such visceral responses sometimes tells me that perhaps I am rejecting the very thing which I crave.

It seems reasonable for you to describe that your therapist didn't love you, but it seems erroneous to extrapolate truths about all therapists and all clients based on your experience.
i think love is quite a drastic feeling and i don't doubt T's care but they love their family, they love their friends there is no need for them to love clients. why do so many have a need to be loved by T's? why isn't care enough?

why would you want to pay someone to love you? quite sad really
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