Yeah I agree. Everyone talks about some people who may have hurt them in the past from time to time. I will admit I do too at times, usually to give an example or a lesson. But I don’t act like asomeone who hurt me years ago had just done me wrong yesterday. That’s a bit much. She does have other things to talk about but yeah she kind of does seem to have a victim mentality. She probably needs therapy or at least someone better to sort out her feelings.