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Aug 09, 2019, 03:05 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
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Originally Posted by yagr
So often on here, a member will list all their partners faults which is quickly followed by everyone telling them how they deserve better - but, at least for me, I can't tell if they deserve better hearing only one side. For instance, does everyone deserve someone who won't cheat on them? How about a serial cheater? Does he or she deserve someone who won't cheat on them?
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I think you may be missing the point of Blanche's thread. To me it sounds like she is a stronger more assured and healthy woman having gone through all that bad stuff and drawing conclusions about the kind of men she will not have and behavior she will not tolerate. She is ranting. I do not believe she is asking for reasons these people were in her life.
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Anyway, if I keep attracting the same type of people, then it probably says more about me than it does about them. This is not meant to be catty - I know you can't hear tone of voice, but I'm hopeful you'll find something helpful in this post.
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To me it sounds like she has come to conclusions about what she wont put up with. I do not think that her experiences mean she is at fault for these men being assholes. If the issues she mentioned are true(and I believe they are) then it says more about THEM than her. She has broken free and knows what she deserves. Aint' Nothin' wrong with that.
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