Hi lightly toasted,

I feel the same way you do in a lot of ways, I really miss having the company of women and having ladies to talk to. The only friendships I have with women are online, through Facebook, which honestly, isn't that reliable.

I have a hard time making and sustaining friends, mostly because I don't know where to look and I think people just don't make friends as they used to when I was younger. I'm approaching 40 soon and it's almost impossible to find friends or maintain friends nowadays.

I just have my best friend, (boyfriend), and a few friends online. It's a lonely life, but I've accepted it. I wish you lived closer. : (

It's amazing in a city like New York with ALL these people, you would think it would be easy to make friends. Unfortunately for me, it isn't.