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Originally Posted by yagr
The emboldened part is the part that I would like to draw attention to. I have heard both men and women cry, "I deserve better!" while ignoring the fact that like attracts like. Simply believing that I deserve a princess will not get me a princess. If that is my hearts desire, than becoming - or at least behaving like a prince, will improve my chances.
So often on here, a member will list all their partners faults which is quickly followed by everyone telling them how they deserve better - but, at least for me, I can't tell if they deserve better hearing only one side. For instance, does everyone deserve someone who won't cheat on them? How about a serial cheater? Does he or she deserve someone who won't cheat on them?
Anyway, if I keep attracting the same type of people, then it probably says more about me than it does about them. This is not meant to be catty - I know you can't hear tone of voice, but I'm hopeful you'll find something helpful in this post.
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Thank you for mansplaining relationships to me, ygar with your prince and princess example. Very patronizing of you.
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Mansplaining: When a man explains something to a woman in a patronizing way and it often begins with a man completely disregarding a woman’s opinions by interrupting her mid-sentence.
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As sarahsweets pointed out, you completely dismissed (actually) the point of my rant thread about my past dating history. Your response isn't even related to my rant -- it's actually a rant of your own.