That was not so much the case, we were playing a computer game, not so much having a serious conversation. He didn't even know I did that. About that sexual imagery, that doesn't happen, that's the case, I can't have erotic imagery about men. Regarding women vs men, It's just that I can relate more easily to men than to women. I don't know how to talk to women. It's like I don't feel manly enough around them. They scorn me most of the time, except when they're older women, then they want to 'mother' me.

Thanks for the replies so far people, very kind, others are welcome!