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Old Aug 10, 2019, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post

T asked what I had doubts about, and I said how many people say I need someone more psychodynamic or humanistic. Or maybe someone more touchy-feely, I don't know. He said he wondered whether that would necessarily be good for me. I said I wondered the same thing, like maybe it's what I want vs. what I need. That I seem to be making progress with him.
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On this point I just wanted to say that I found a T who would meet all of my needs and as soon as I did and she did, they no longer became compulsions or things I had to fight for and it freed up so much space to work on the things I need to rather than constantly fight for what I wanted.
Thanks for this!
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