Hi fern46,

Thanks for your response. I also have thoughts along similar lines. I think she putting what happened and its aftermath (the fact that I haven't responded to her texts for a month) on me as much as possible.

It's true that I was over-involved in what was going on in her life before all this happened.

I just feel a lot of resentment and her messages upset me all over again. I am thinking I should block her but i feel more like just ignoring and not giving her any signal at all.

I did mute her but haven't blocked yet.

tecomsin