Thank you for all of the replies! I have considered this over the last week and tried to see her perspective as well.

Firstly it bothers me that an issue within our relationship has become such a big part of my life. I have enough problems without her adding more.

Secondly I think she deserves the chance to know it bothers me. If she blows that off then so be it. It sounds like there are therapists out there who wouldn't do that so maybe the problem is her. If she wants to apologize and fix the problem then great, I can forgive.

I see her tomorrow and plan to bring it up first thing just to get it over with.