[QUOTE=JustExisting;6604524]I don't think I would be comfortable with that. For me, for some reason there is something more personal about him reading what I wrote directly as opposed to letting me tell it myself. At the same time it is more profound and meaningful to tell it myself because that is what lets it become more real for me, and really let me process it.

Plus the whole notion of giving him something to

Hiw about you write in chunks and read what you wrote to him? With EMDR T once I wrote her a letter and had her read it and then we discussed it. Another tine I wrote a letter and read it to her. Just an idea.