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Old Aug 13, 2019, 01:02 AM
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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie View Post
Never tell your therapist you are attached to them.

Never tell your therapist you depend on them.

Never write them an email that might piss them off even the slightest.

You get punished for showing any improvement.

He started his session off with "We need to discuss cutting sessions down."

I saw the change in the way he dealt with me. He did a complete 360 after an email I sent him 3 weeks ago and saw the slow change after I tried to talk to him about my transference.

I feel sick.


my ex-T didn't do a very fantastic job either of handling my transference or his own counter transference for that matter

it's not an easy predicament to be stuck in, especially when there is such overwhelming pain involved. just know that you are not alone as you work through this
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SlumberKitty
Thanks for this!
here today, MoxieDoxie