Red Flags for me?

1. Very very intense, very very quickly. Too close, waay too fast.
2. Too presumptuous that my/your time, attention, and/or resources should be theirs implicitly and automatically
3. Requires boundless quantities of emotional, mental, and physical energy bc s/he is sooo special and should have EVERYTHING s/he needs -- again, it should be automatically given.

4. There is no 4 because by that time I'm so bloody freaking exhausted I cannot think straight anymore and don't want to . All I want is a BREAK!

Phew, I'm exhausted just typing that. lol
Best,
Chyia, definitely one of the Firm Boundary Tribe