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Old Aug 14, 2019, 12:35 AM
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My wife has gone baby crazy. She’s shopping online, watching mommy vlogs, thinking of names, etc... if it’s related to babies she’s thought of it.

This has driven a wedge in our relationship, and I admit we did try for a short time. But then quickly realized we weren’t stable enough or healthy enough to procreate.

So me and my wife were laying in bed and we were “discussing” babies for the twelfth time in the past two days. Now I haven’t brought up kids at all in weeks (shows how ready I am) but she always wants to talk about it. This is quite literally all she thinks about and those are her words. Anyways she was saying that guys don’t understand what it’s like to have baby fever. So here I am wanting someone to explain it too me. Because I have never had a huge desire to have kids. I always assumed I would one day and I could see myself as a farther. However the thought of living with just my wife and dogs is a equally enjoyable thought.

Frankly kids freak me out a little. I tend to believe they are rude, mean, stressful, and needy. My wife says it’s different when you have your own kids. But all I can think is how does she know.

Back to my main topic. The only thing I can imagine what baby fever is like to me is not having sex for a couple weeks and being teased relentlessly during that time. But other than that I haven’t a clue.

So ladies and men who have suffered through severe baby fever. Can you help me understand and maybe offer coping advice. This is really putting a strain on our marriage.
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