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Originally Posted by divine1966
I’d not be in a relationship with someone who lives with their spouse/partner (she can call him ex but what makes him ex? Not having sex? Ton of people are a couple but don’t have sex).
I’d demand she officially ends it by not cohabitating,, has a divorce decree and custody court order and is fully single.
No I’d not be FaceTiming with her kids either, sure they are asking. Kids always ask who is this and who is that.
Her inviting you over when “ex” (I use that term loosely here) is at work is fishy to me
None of it sounds like relationship material at all.
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That's fine and all, but it isn't ways as easy as just filing for divorce and moving out. It requires a lot. They'd have to arrange housing shares, she's not married, and they have kids. You can't just simply walk away. I cannot just also ignore her and the kids, when the children become attached then it's harder. Her ex knows about me, we've been somewhat intimate with each other in his company, he has a girlfriend. I understand your red flags, but sometimes it just isn't as easy as it is to write.