Hello people!

So I‘m kinda into that girl that I met in early 2019 and we had Sex at that time but I didn’t futher invest into her because she lives 2,5 away from me, she gave signals that she was more into me though.

The turning point now was that she moved to a nearer place for the next 6 months, which made me decide to make a move. I had one date last month with her to ensure I’m still into her, i was really holding back because i didn’t wanted to rush things, I paid for the food anyway.

Now she had birthday and I gave her a kinda over the top present (nothing expensive, rather sweet) where you can read between the lines that I’m into her.
I got a hard rejection, she kinda didn’t wanted the present, didn’t know what to say and even kinda made fun of it and was arrogant in general.

I have to admit that it was risky and my timing was unfortunate.
The thing is, i can deal with a „No“, but making fun of it in a arrogant way really hurt me. I laughed it away in the heat of the moment and acted if it was alright but now after 2 days I’m really angry about it.

I have no problem with my self worth at this point but why do I feel this angry about it? I’m stuck between just let it go and play cool, or text her and tell her that I’m angry. There is this urge to express those negative emotions about the way she handled it, but in what way would that help me?

I am scared that if I approach her with that, that she feels attacked and I just push her further away from me and I am being the one that’s closing the door finally. If I play it cool then i would have to suck everything up but there would be maybe a chance to turn things around in the future, or at least I’m hoping so.

On a side note:
She probably has a father issue that pushes her to perfectionism and arrogance, dealing with someone being really sweet with her is not really comfortable for her (i learned the hard way now). From the little that I know is, that the father didn’t really acknowledge her and kinda left the family when she was 7.

I really need a another opinion on this:
Should I express that I’m angry and disappointed or just not text her again? She didn’t send a sincere apology, in fact no contact since the rejection. And It’s kinda my turn to make a move or not

Thanks in advance!