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Originally Posted by ~Christina
Yes I am trying to focus on the good.. I will have more time with my daughter tomorrow. And seeing grandbaby later tonight.
Hubby is just now getting up he is still very tired from being so sick, but he’d never admit to that of course.... (insert huge eyeroll)
My aunt keeps messaging me practically demanding we stop and see her she’s about 2 hours north. Having our dogs with us complicate things. She’s living in a trailer that literally has holes through the floor, yes you can see the ground , plus my cousin lives there and let’s just say we had a huge falling out when she showed up drunk to my father’s funeral in 97 and made a horrible scene. So we can’t just meet my aunt at some restaurant in town for lunch. I do not look forward to having to go to her home. The both live in filth , sad to say but it’s true. That will be next week.
Everything about this trip is just overly complicated, more so than our standard typical trips down. I just have all my body parts crossed that everything will run smoother from this point on. Lol
How are you today ? Feeling better? Did the extra Seroquil help you ?
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I see your dilemma about visiting your aunt. Christina, if you think it best, you can still say no to your aunt. I had to say no to my father asking me to visit him today. I'm intensely upset about his call to me a little bit ago. For my own good, there is no way in the heck I can possibly visit him. I had to tell him that, but still say that I care. It's my assumption that your aunt isn't very ill and possibly a risk to herself. My dad is and yet I still had to say no. I did tell him to call me again today, if he really needs my support. I sort of hope he doesn't. Then I called my sister and asked her to send my nephew to visit our dad. Of course I'm concerned.
We sometimes have to say no. If you've already agreed to visit your aunt and you wish you could cancel, you can still cancel. You have the choice when considering your husband's and your own health.