I see your dilemma about visiting your aunt. Christina, if you think it best, you can still say no to your aunt. I had to say no to my father asking me to visit him today. I'm intensely upset about his call to me a little bit ago. For my own good, there is no way in the heck I can possibly visit him. I had to tell him that, but still say that I care. It's my assumption that your aunt isn't very ill and possibly a risk to herself. My dad is and yet I still had to say no. I did tell him to call me again today, if he really needs my support. I sort of hope he doesn't. Then I called my sister and asked her to send my nephew to visit our dad. Of course I'm concerned.

We sometimes have to say no. If you've already agreed to visit your aunt and you wish you could cancel, you can still cancel. You have the choice when considering your husband's and your own health.