Well, if you don't feel like staying in a relationship then I guess it's better for both of you to move on. I don't think it's fair to generalize against all of the people who are suffering with BPD, though. They deserve to be treated with the same respect as anyone else. Still, I'm sorry for your negative experience. I hope you'll be able to work on yourself and that things will improve. Please keep working on yourself. Wishing you the BEST of Luck! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you and your Girlfriend/Boyfriend, @NotForMe!