I never thought I would have and never wanted children and I am a woman. to my schagrin I got pregnant with my then fiances baby. I wasn't ready for a child and have emotional issues too. I didn.t consider abortion because of my religion. our relationship went under and we split as I learned my then to be husband began drinking too much after my son was born, and all the bad stuff happened. I love my son to pieces and had to make my escape from his dad. I made plans and it is a long story but I am not sorry for having him, he is the light of my life I love him so much. I think I did have a bit of baby fever, but never tried to get pregnant. I think the feeling is really strong when a person loves another so much especially women. human nature plays a role too-look at all of us human beings we are lucky to have been chosen to be born or not.