I tried to tell myboyfriend what was upsetting me and and he just wouldn't say a thing (over the phone) and then his tone of voice was angry and all he would say was that he had no answer for me and was hanging up. I wrote him a text message and said I feel really hurt and scared and and unloved was crying and he told me I needed to fix my own problems. Now I can't sleep and I don't know why he'd do that and feel like when you need a hug why do you get hate? I don't get it.