Exactly. Fkm, LT, , JT, SP, et al,
By holiday, i mean, dont you go with your parents to the beach every year? Or something like that? Not that theres anything wrong with it, but i vaguely remember something to the effect of, its on THEIR timetable.

But yeah, exactly. Youre treating your t like your mom treated you. Just like when i would say to my t, "youre just like my mom!", and he would go, "no, YOURE just like your mom!"

We cant harp on what THEY are doing (are they being polite or reasonable or whatever), because their actions are not TRUE SOCIALLY - they are carefully responding therapeutically to us.

Are you "treating him horribly"? Was your mother treating you horribly? She wasnt accepting your answer. She was training you to give her the correct answer. I sometimes think my parents treated me like a dog, only they didnt give me that much attention.