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Originally Posted by PurpleMirrors3
Sadly I found the opposite to be true. I live in a city saturated with therapists and it seems to be the unspoken understanding that there is an abundance of incompetence everywhere. The therapists I consulted with had no problem at all believing that I had been harmed by one of their colleagues. It was a bit humorous to hear each new therapist profess how their own modality would be better, safer, more productive bleh bleh bleh.
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i'm sorry that was your experince, and at the same time, i'm not surprised to hear that. fortunately, my NFB therapist was familiar with developmental truama, when my ex-T was not. because of that, NFB T had an understanding about the transference dynamics that were playing out in my relationship with my T and how my Ts counter transference reactions were not the correct way to be reacting to or addressing my issues. luckily, my NFB T had a way to help me overcome the unhealthy transference that was playing out with my T and because of that, i was able to start 'de-attaching' from my T in a healthy and empowering way.