Why do you assume she has father issues? And how and why would you consider diagnosing someone after meeting her only twice? You don’t know her enough to assume it yet

I found it curious that you got a birthday gift for someone you only met twice with long break in between. It’s not nice of her to laugh at a gift at all. It’s quite rude regardless if she felt taken aback. But it also depends what was in the gift? Lingerie? What does over the top mean?