Thread: Hard Rejection
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Old Aug 16, 2019, 06:56 PM
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which made me decide to make a move. I had one date last month with her to ensure I’m still into her, i was really holding back because i didn’t wanted to rush things, I paid for the food anyway.
Maybe that date reassured her that she is NO LONGER into you but didn't know how to tell you & maybe HOPED you decided the same.....THEN....

You bought her an "over the top" birthday gift without REALLY even knowing how she really felt after that last date.

Sometimes I have had to be rather rude & definitely NOT want to accept a gift from someone I decided was wrong because there was NO WAY I wanted to encourage their feelings at all so being rude is usually a good discouragement.....then they are the ones that decide they don't want to bother & it saves a whole lot of emotional drama
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