Hi Stuck1nhead

Love in itself is rarely enough to build a life together with another person...see I emphasised the 'Building a life together' part? To build a life it takes money, planning and similar vision. It certainly isn't a prerequisite to both want all the same things, there has to be a level of autonomy...But the important visions and plans like bringing children into the world are an absolute deal breaker. In my opinion no one should have to compromise when it comes to the major decisions... if you aren't on the same page, then you don't want the same life.

Yes she deserves the life she wants...But so do you.