Yes, it does seem complicated, @lastanthony682. I COMPLETELY agree with what the wise, wonderful Skeezyks has already wisely and WONDERFULLY said BETTER THAN I EVER COULD! Definitely talk things through with a therapist or counselor. They're there to help you after all. I feel like the decision is up to you in the end and it's worth exploring what you're TRULY feeling. It's important for BOTH you AND your Wife to make a decision soon. It is definitely not fair to keep a marriage going if you don't feel like you Love her enough. Take your time to make a choice and REALLY, TRULY explore your feelings. I hope things will turn out well for ALL the parties involved! Keep us updated on your situation and let us know how it goes if you want to. Don't worry, you WON'T be insulted here! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH You, @lastanthony682, your Wife, her Sister, your Family, your Friends, your Parents, your Children if you have any, your Relatives and ALL Of Your Loved Ones! KEEP FIGHTING AND KEEP ROCKING A SMUCH AS YOU POSSIBLY CAN LIKE YOU'RE ALREADY WONDERFULLY DOING ALL AND ENTIRELY BY YOURSELF!