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Originally Posted by TunedOut
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Wow, not that many women would live on a boat with kids! (We had a sailboat before we had kids and I can't imagine raising kids on a boat) It sounds like your wife can be flexible about many things too!
I have been married 31+ years and sometimes adjustments have to be made that are not easy. You said you aren't planning to come back to PC but if you do--I hope it all works out for you and your wife!
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I have an amazing wife that is way too good for me. She has her faults, as we all do, but I have a very strong personality so to stick through this.. and it was (is, until we sell her) a 40' sailboat.. when you're in the Caribbean you spend more time off the boat than on so it doesn't seem as small.
I actually think I'll be back. Not right away as I want to focus on my marriage and myself, but if I can give even one person inspiration and help turning a "I'm going to leave you and will not change my mind" into "I feel like we're closer than we've been in over 15 years"..
She's really sharing with me all her issues. She's getting everything off her chest. I don't like hearing everything, but I feel like we finally have a relationship again.. She's also fine with me telling her my issues with her and our relationship so we can incorporate them into the melting pot.
I'm a very blessed person.